the most important person to be out to is yourself

if you’re not out to anyone else bc it’s not safe, or you’re not ready, or you just don’t want to that’s ok

it does not change who you are

coming out is a very personal thing

ultimately it’s about you, and you have to decide what’s right for yourself and what will keep you safe

maybe you’re out to a couple of close friends, maybe just your parents, maybe everyone but your parents, maybe you’re just out to yourself and that’s enough

whether you are out to a hundred people or none

you are brave and amazing beyond measure and you deserve to be celebrated

happy national coming out day!