The dumbest thing I ever believed as a kid was deciding to stick with the whole “being a boy” thing because I was way more likely to get a girlfriend that way. I consider this the worst because:
1. Horrible priorities really.
2. I am 9000% more attractive now.
I think I had this attitude like: “how many girls would date a trans girl anyways?”
LOTS. LOTS YA DINGUS.
I guess I just want to put this out there in case there are any trans or nb kids out there following me who think they need to compromise their identity for the sake of romantic prospects. I fell into that trap and it seriously sabotaged a lot of my personal development. Not to sound like a cheesy after school program but uhh… just be yourself? It’s fine. No really.