I’m afab and don’t feel attached to any gender and started questioning a little while ago. I don’t get dysphoric about my breasts though so am I still agender? I feel more comfortable with they/them pronouns and don’t like doing things because “I’m a girl and I have to”

Hi! Yeah, don’t worry, you’re totally still agender. Despite what some people will tell you, dysphoria/pain/etc. is not a prerequisite for being a/transgender. I mean, it is possible you could be neutrois instead of agender. The two concepts are very closely linked, like siblings. But if you think on it and you go ‘nah, agender–not neutrois’ then that’s totally fine. 

-Ama