I'm questioning whether I'm agender. I know I'm trans because I'm not a girl, that I'm certain of. I know I'm non-binary of some sort because I'm also not a boy. I don't really know if I have a gender and I'm so confused by this whole gender thing. I don't understand why it seems I have to have a gender and I don't know why I can't just not have one. Idk. I use he/him pronouns and I don't know if that's a factor. Any advice I would be grateful for.
I mean, to be honest, what you’re saying there seems to be a pretty good indicator that you might be agender. Of course, I can’t determine that for you, but your description aligns pretty closely to what I and other agender people have described! Your pronouns don’t innately impact things, because pronouns don’t necessarily align with gender (or lack thereof).
Hope this helps at all!
I’m afab and don’t feel attached to any gender and started questioning a little while ago. I don’t get dysphoric about my breasts though so am I still agender? I feel more comfortable with they/them pronouns and don’t like doing things because “I’m a girl and I have to”
Hi! Yeah, don’t worry, you’re totally still agender. Despite what some people will tell you, dysphoria/pain/etc. is not a prerequisite for being a/transgender. I mean, it is possible you could be neutrois instead of agender. The two concepts are very closely linked, like siblings. But if you think on it and you go ‘nah, agender–not neutrois’ then that’s totally fine.
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